Thursday, November 24, 2011

Thanksgiving, Lite

This morning I sat in an oversized leather chair in my in-laws’ living room, crocheting a scarf for my husband, enjoying the warmth from the nearby fireplace and listening to the Macy’s Thanksgiving Day Parade and then the football game my brother-in-law was watching.

I have too many things to be thankful for. I’m celebrating nearly nine months of marriage to the best partner and friend I could ask for. I’m enjoying the company of my in-laws, who are amazing people whose family I am grateful to have fallen in to. I spoke with my brother and sister-in-law this morning, and am happy that they are happy. I’m grateful that my brother will no longer be associated with the military, even though it’s proving to be a bump along his path. I haven’t talked with my parents yet (that’s next on my list) but I’m sure they’re enjoying a meal with Mom’s side of the family, and probably stopping by Dad’s oldest brother’s house some time today. They are looking forward to having the kids home for Christmas. I’m taking a break this week from work (I’m too busy, but try to remind myself that it’s much better than being bored). I exchange texts today with friends as they celebrate thanks with their families.

I looked out over the Black River, and looked through the bar tree branches to watch the clouds roll by. I missed the ducks and geese, which were reportedly ruffling about and making noise before I paid attention. I sipped warm coffee in a colorful mug, sweetened with holiday-flavored creamer. After our mid-afternoon dinner, I’m sitting on the couch with a black kitten cuddling against my leg, settling into her afternoon nap.

San and I own our home, we’re both well employed. I love my work, and am exploring new hobbies this year. San occupies his free time making up projects with friends. Just last weekend we were able to enjoy an art gallery showing accompanied by music and poetry reading, plus a play. We’re more comfortable than we need to be, and grateful for that contentment and luxury.

Taking a break from the commercialism that will crash into us tomorrow, I look forward to the rest of the holidays and spending time with family and friends. Perhaps we’ll plan a holiday party in the next few weekends, squeezing it in between work parties and travel. Life is bright and looking up.